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Dealing with Infertility at Holiday Time

Friday, December 4th, 2009

Infertility is stressful no matter what the calendar says, but it can be particularly difficult during the holidays.  For many couples, this time of year becomes a reminder of their pain rather than a celebration of their lives together.

If you are dealing with infertility, here are 10 ways to handle uncomfortable feelings and situations:

  1. Don’t tell yourself you must be happy all the time.  Allow yourself to feel sorrow, joy and any other emotion.  Bottling it up will only make it worse.
  2. Don’t give up on the holidays.  If you’ve had a particularly rough year (e.g., IVF that didn’t work, a miscarriage), you can still celebrate the good things about your past 12 months. 
  3. Don’t blame your partner for your holiday-related stress.  It’s easy to point fingers, but remember that words can hurt.  Instead, be supportive of one another.
  4. If you want to talk about your infertility issues with a friend, go ahead.  But if your friend wants to talk about your infertility and you don’t, feel free to tell him or her that you’re uncomfortable.
  5. Don’t turn infertility into the “elephant in the room” that everyone tiptoes around.  You don’t have to make a big deal out of it, but if you want to discuss it or acknowledge it, that’s fine, too.
  6. Know that some people may be unsure how to approach you during the holidays, especially those with babies.  You may have to reach out to them.
  7. Speaking of reaching out, it can be amazingly comforting to volunteer at holiday time.  Not only will it take your mind off your own issues, but it will enable you to do something good for others.
  8. Set a steady pace leading up to (and out of) the holidays.  Don’t rush around and make yourself crazy.  It will only make you more likely to experience stress.
  9. If you feel unhappy around maternity or baby items, avoid certain stores and store departments when shopping for the holidays.
  10. Exercise during this season.  It’s good for your body, mind and soul.

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“Super Sperm” — Too Much of a Good Thing?

Tuesday, September 15th, 2009

According to Marie Claire, there’s a new problem facing couples trying to conceive — super sperm.  

Researchers are now investigating what they deem to be sperm which are so aggressive and eager that they essentially over-fertilize each ovum.  Consequently, the egg never fully develops and conception is thwarted.

Though this isn’t necessarily a mainstream theory on why so many men and women deal with infertility issues, it’s likely to be one that will carry weight if future evidence backs up these “super sperm” claims.

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When Sex Just Isn’t Fun Anymore

Tuesday, July 28th, 2009

424-raphael-collin-music-q75-334x500Reading this article brought home a really important point — when you’re dealing with infertility issues, sex can often become more drudgery than anything else.

Big surprise, right?  But it’s worth mentioning. 

We’ve already established that couples who have difficulty conceiving can easily become stressed out.  And high stress levels can lead to problems in the bedroom.  Erectile dysfunction.  Lubrication issues.  Ejaculation problems.  Those perfectly-understandable physiological responses to anxiety only exacerbate the underlying concern.

If you and your partner are to the point where sex is a chore, it’s time to seek out the help of a counselor.  A therapist who is trained in the area of reproductive health issues can get you back on track.  After all, there’s no reason that intercourse should cease to be pleasurable.  You deserve to enjoy your time together.

(If any couples or individuals have any suggestions on de-stressing and keeping sex exciting during infertility, feel free to comment.  We’d love to hear your thoughts.)

Coping with the Stress of Infertility for Couples

Friday, July 24th, 2009

Couples dealing with infertility issues often underestimate the effects of stress on their relationships.  Even partners with a strong, “we’re in it together” attitude can experience periods of anxiety as a result of their inability to conceive.

If you’re in a relationship and you’ve been unable to get pregnant, it’s critical not to allow infertility to ruin your bond. 

(As an interesting side note, some studies have suggested that the stress of infertility can be an enormous contributing factor to the infertility itself, a kind of “Catch-22″ scenario.)

Below are three ways for you and your significant other to get through your infertility issues:

1.  Don’t make infertility the “elephant under the rug” no one talks about.  Some couples tiptoe around the issue of infertility, all the while boiling below the surface.  Instead, acknowledge the problem and move forward as a team.

2.  Don’t accuse one another.  Infertility isn’t anyone’s fault; consequently, if your partner is infertile, it is unacceptable to treat him or her badly.  Period.

3.  Don’t define yourselves by your infertility The fact that you are having difficulty conceiving does not mean you are any less of a couple or any less of individuals.  Infertility is only one aspect of your relationship, not your entire relationship.

Infertility Could Be a Reality for Male Elite Cyclists

Tuesday, June 30th, 2009

tn_img_5727From the BBC comes a report that links male elite cyclists and infertility issues.

According to the article, the overall sperm quality of elite cyclists drop radically, mainly because of their vigorous training regimens.  In fact, the Spanish researchers who conducted the survey of male elite cyclists even recommended those cyclists consider freezing their sperm before beginning their cycling careers.

However, this isn’t a cause for you to pitch your ten speed.  In the study, the men who were examined cycled more than 186 miles per week, much more than your average Joe.

Because the same drop in sperm quality wasn’t seen in long-distance swimmers or runners, the problem may lie with a number of factors, including the heat generated from the cyclists’ clothing or the pressure of the seat against the groin area of the cyclist.

Though this may not affect you or your partner, it’s worth considering the possibility that certain types of high intensity exercise routines could lead to fertility issues.

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Surrogacy Isn’t Only for the Stars

Friday, June 26th, 2009

The news was announced earlier this week — Sarah Jessica Parker and Matthew Broderick’s surrogate gave birth to the couple’s twins.  It brought surrogacy in the news, but what many people don’t realize is that having a surrogate give birth to their children isn’t just for Hollywood’s elite.

In fact, surrogacy can be an effective solution for couples struggling with infertility problems.  In some cases, it greatly minimizes the stress of continuing with fertility treatments that might not be working.  Consequently, surrogacy shouldn’t be ignored; it’s been and continues to be a viable way to have a baby for numerous men and women.

Our congratulations to SJP and MB!

In the News: Stress Can Be Major Cause of Fertility Problems

Monday, June 22nd, 2009
Tied in knots because of stress?

Tied in knots because of stress?

If you’re stressed out because you’re not able to conceive, that stress may actually be contributing to your fertility issues.

So says a recent study from the University of California, Berkeley, as reported by MyFOX in Chattanooga, TN.

A recently-released abstract from the study notes that:

“The subjective experience of stress leads to reproductive dysfunction in many species, including rodents and humans. Stress effects on reproduction result from multilevel interactions between the hormonal stress response system, i.e., the hypothalamic–pituitary–adrenal (HPA) axis, and the hormonal reproductive system, i.e., the hypothalamic–pituitary–gonadal (HPG) axis.”

Many individuals and couples who have experienced infertility are not strangers to the notion that stress that can contribute to infertility. 

However, it’s important to remember that the majority of infertility issues cannot be solved by relaxation.  That’s why working with a knowledgeable team of reproductive science professionals is always recommended for men and women who have been unable to conceive naturally.

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Infertility – By the Numbers

Tuesday, June 2nd, 2009

childs-purple-shoeDuring the past twenty years, the subject of infertility has absolutely become less taboo in American culture, yet it’s still one that’s fraught with misunderstandings and misinformation.

As a launching-point for the RSI Infertility blog, we’ve accumulated some of the most up-to-date information on infertility available, including some facts and figures that may surprise you.

  • 7.3 million women between the ages of 15 and 44  have impaired fecundity.  This translates to 11.8% of that population who will likely experience infertility issues.
  • A female’s chances of conceiving and carrying a baby drop every year after she turns 30.
  • About 10-15% of couples are considered infertile.
  • In about 50% of the cases of couples with infertility, male infertility plays a significant role.
  • Approximately 67% of all couples who are treated for infertility are able to have children.

Sources:  Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, National Women’s Health Information Center, MayoClinic.com

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