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Fertility Treatments and the Inflexible Work Situation

Saturday, September 12th, 2009

You’ve decided to try fertility treatments to combat your inability to conceive a child without medical intervention.  You’re at peace with your decision and are ready to go.  There’s only one thing stopping you — your inflexible employer and/or work schedule.

What do you do?

This is a very real concern for people around the globe, not just those living in America.  Fertility treatments can range from requiring only short appointments to necessitating days of bed rest.  And this can wreak havoc career-wise.

Thus, it is critical for you to go to your supervisor and/or personnel manager to discuss your options before you start any fertility treatments that could make it difficult (if not impossible) for you to work.  However, you need to be aware that while many employers will try to accommodate you, some will not.

Whether or not you can fight any ensuing inflexibility depends upon a multitude of factors, including the industry you’re in and type of work you do.  You’ll need to come to the table with ideas and solutions of your own, such as working from home if possible or taking on extra work during the days or weeks you aren’t taking time off for your fertility treatments.

Is this a tricky subject?  Yes — for both the employer and employee.  But addressing it head on will mean less anxiety in the long run.

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Coping with the Stress of Infertility for Couples

Friday, July 24th, 2009

Couples dealing with infertility issues often underestimate the effects of stress on their relationships.  Even partners with a strong, “we’re in it together” attitude can experience periods of anxiety as a result of their inability to conceive.

If you’re in a relationship and you’ve been unable to get pregnant, it’s critical not to allow infertility to ruin your bond. 

(As an interesting side note, some studies have suggested that the stress of infertility can be an enormous contributing factor to the infertility itself, a kind of “Catch-22″ scenario.)

Below are three ways for you and your significant other to get through your infertility issues:

1.  Don’t make infertility the “elephant under the rug” no one talks about.  Some couples tiptoe around the issue of infertility, all the while boiling below the surface.  Instead, acknowledge the problem and move forward as a team.

2.  Don’t accuse one another.  Infertility isn’t anyone’s fault; consequently, if your partner is infertile, it is unacceptable to treat him or her badly.  Period.

3.  Don’t define yourselves by your infertility The fact that you are having difficulty conceiving does not mean you are any less of a couple or any less of individuals.  Infertility is only one aspect of your relationship, not your entire relationship.