“When should I tell people about my/our infertility?” 

It’s a question that has no specific answer.

Some couples and individuals choose to tell people right away that they’re having difficulty conceiving.  To them, it’s the obvious thing to do.  Others never talk about their struggles with infertility at all, believing it’s an issue that’s best kept under wraps (maybe even forever.)

Though there are no clear-cut answers as to when you should let the proverbial cat out of the bag, you do have to be prepared for what people are going to say if and when you choose to “come out” about your infertility.  After all, like it or lump it, some folks may respond lovingly… and others may not.  This means you have to be ready for almost anything. 

Fortunately, if you’re working with clinic that specializes in reproductive science issues, you’ll have terrific access to professionals who can help you navigate the waters ahead and steel yourself for any questions, responses or comments that may come your way.

And, of course, don’t let the possibility of a few uncouth statements deter you from reaching out.  If you want to tell someone of your infertility, go for it.  But if you’re not certain, there’s nothing wrong with keeping it under wraps for a little while longer.  In the end, it’s up to you.

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