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Fertility Myth #3 – If You Take It Easy, You’ll Get Pregnant

Friday, July 15th, 2011

 “Just relax and go with the flow! That’s how you’ll get pregnant!”

“If you’d calm down a little, you’d be able to get pregnant in no time.”

“I wish you would take it easy, for goodness’ sake. That’s your real problem. Go on vacation and you’ll come home pregnant!”

Unfortunately, those sentences are indicative of the advice that far too many individuals and couples dealing with fertility concerns hear. To be sure, the comment isn’t meant to be hurtful, but it does tend to send the wrong message. In a nutshell, it’s just not true.

Don’t get us wrong – stress can absolutely be a contributing factor to fertility problems. However, relaxation is not typically a one-size-fits-all solution. Though being able to enjoy “down time” does contribute to a healthier attitude, mindset and, sometimes, outcome, it’s complementary to fertility treatments, not a treatment in and of itself.

The next time someone makes this type of statement to you, there are a few choices:

1. Say nothing. Just smile and nod.

2. Tell the person that your fertility is not any of their business.

3. Reply, “I’m glad that worked for you.”

Whatever you do, don’t assume that you’re under any obligation to believe this myth. It’s an old wives tale, which means it’s best left to the annals of history.

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The “Going Natural” Method of Fertility Treatments

Wednesday, December 8th, 2010

At RSI, we’re open to any forms of fertility treatment, even those that might not be considered “mainstream”.  But sometimes, we see men and women who have tried homeopathic, so-called “natural” fertility treatments for years and years… only to realize that they’ve wasted their time — and dollars – on these methods.

If you’ve been wooed by the “go natural to get pregnant” headlines touting fertility treatments made up of everything from herbs to mild dietary changes, there’s usually not anything innately wrong with trying such methods to conceive.  In fact, many of our patients try or have tried alternative methods to have a child. 

The real issue comes into play when patients have spent copious amounts of time and money investing in practices that have not produced any well-documented results.

Our recommendation is to bring all your thoughts and questions, including those involving “alternative” remedies, to a trained, reputable fertility specialist for a consultation.  That way, you can be assured that you’re not wasting any time on methods that are unlikely to work while simultaneously discussing all the choices that are available to you, including those that are homeopathic.

Paying for Fertility Treatments

Friday, January 15th, 2010

Have you hesitated to consider investigating fertility treatments because you’re worried about the potential cost?  Then you’re not alone.  Many individuals and couples assume they “can’t afford it” and decide not to pursue their dreams of having a child.

Fortunately, there are numerous ways to pay for fertility treatments that won’t render you penniless.  Consider these methods that others have successfully tried:

  • Buy special infertility insurance.  There are some insurance companies that now offer insurance packages for fertility treatments.  In fact, yours might have an option that you don’t know about.
  • Don’t start with the most expensive treatment.  When considering fertility treatments, don’t assume you’ll need the most costly treatment.  Ask your doctor for choices.
  • See if your fertility treatments are tax deductible.  Check with your accountant and see if you can deduct fertility treatment costs off your taxes.  This can be a great help.
  • Take out a special loan for fertility treatments.  There are loans available to individuals and couples who intend to undergo fertility procedures.  This can help tremendously if you qualify.
  • Ask for help from family members.  Though you probably don’t want to rely too heavily on your family, if you have a close-knit relationship with your parents and they’ve offered assistance, you might want to consider taking it. 
  • Talk with your reproductive science specialist’s office about payment options and alternatives.  At a clinic like RSI, we often handle inquiries about payment options and we’re happy to explain the different routes people have taken.  You never know until you ask.
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  • Picking an Egg Donor Program That Offers Choices

    Wednesday, January 13th, 2010

    couple-with-babyEgg donation is a very personal choice many individuals and couples make when seeking assistance in conceiving a child.  Because every egg donor program varies from clinic to clinic, it’s important to make certain that yours gives you the most options.

    What are some of the options you’ll want to investigate?  Consider these, for starters:

    • Diversified Egg Donor Listing.  You deserve as many options as you need, so it’s critical to pick an egg donor program that offers you choices such as the ethnic diversity of the egg donor (including African-American, Jewish heritage, etc.)
    • Experienced Medical Team.  Believe it or not, all reproductive science specialists are not quite as “specialized” as you might think.  Thus, it’s critical to find a team that has plenty of expertise in this area.
    • Young Egg DonorsMany clinics will allow donors up to 35+; at RSI, we consider age 32 the “cap” for our egg donors. 
    • Extensive Egg Donor Profiles. You should be able to find out quite a bit about your egg donor at your reproductive science clinic.  If you feel you’re not getting enough information, it’s probably an indication that you’re at the wrong place.
    • No Waiting List. Better clinics have no egg donor waiting list.  That means you have fewer delays in reaching your goal of a healthy baby.
    • Couples/Individuals Choose Egg Donor. You should be able to choose the egg donor you prefer, and RSI supports that wish.  However, it’s important to note that some clinics will want to choose for you.
    • Competitive Price. As always, you need to work with a reproductive science specialist who understands that fertility treatments should be priced competitively. 
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