There’s nothing innately funny about fertility problems, but that doesn’t mean that keeping a sense of humor isn’t critical to getting through them. In fact, it’s mentally and physically very healthy to be able to laugh on a regular basis.
Interestingly, the basic physiological changes that occur when a person laughs may have a significant impact on his or her being able to increase the chances that a fertility procedure works.
For instance, because humor reduces stress, a woman may be more relaxed when undergoing IVF. Her body may hold itself less rigidly, meaning that the fertility procedure takes place more efficiently with less pain. And who knows? A relaxed body could be more conducive to a better result.
The same holds true for men. If a male has been told that he *must* perform sexually on certain days of the week or month to maximize the chances of fertility occurring, that’s a huge stressor. Being able to find the humor in the situation keeps the mood in the bedroom from turning sour. It also keeps him from being unable to get “in the mood” or even ejaculate.
With this being said, fertility problems absolutely aren’t a walk in the park. They aren’t fun. They aren’t light-hearted in and of themselves. But being able to put them into perspective may just be what the doctor ordered.
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I disagree that there’s nothing humorous about infertility and working with a fertility clinic. As part of a couple involved in our own long journey, humor can be the best medicine. See if you agree. Here’s my own humorous fertility video from the male perspective: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-PAwbTt4Og