Infertility isn’t predictable, it isn’t fun and, let’s be honest, it isn’t fair.
No wonder so many individuals and couples become angry, depressed and sullen when dealing with an inability to naturally conceive a child!
Unfortunately, too many people around them expect them to “deal with it” or be able to “roll with the punches”. But that’s simply not a realistic expectation; in fact, it can be one that ends friendships and causes rifts in families.
If you’re dealing with the ups and downs of infertility, you deserve to hear the truth: It is perfectly reasonable for you to feel angry sometimes.
Trying to have a baby when your body seems to not be cooperating can be a frustrating process, and with the uncertainty comes a certain amount of resentment, especially when results aren’t as you’d ultimately like.
Does it seem obvious that anger is to be expected? Perhaps. But it’s still critical to let every man or woman dealing with infertility hear that it IS all right to be moody, to be annoyed, to be downright angry. Just make sure that you talk with someone (i.e., a therapist, clergy person, etc.) if the feelings begin to get in the way of your ability to make the most of your life.
And if you’re on the receiving end of the anger? Well, you might just have to be a listening ear. The best gift you can give someone dealing with infertility is your unwavering patience and understanding.
Like what you read? Digg, Stumble or Tweet this post!
Want to be the first to see RSI’s newest posts? Join RSI’s RSS feed now.
- RSI… helping miracles happen.
- Join RSI on Twitter.
For individuals and couples dealing with the world of infertility, the experience can be daunting, if not downright confusing. Unfortunately, many well-meaning friends, family members, colleagues and, yes, even strangers are quick to give advice, even if it’s not desired.
Surrogacy